(The following is a speech recently presented by Wayne)
Good afternoon friends and enemies of Truth Speakers Toastmasters, , , ,
and esteemed guests! (No enemies today?)
The circus owner walked into a bar— saw there was a big commotion at the
far end of the bar. A bunch of people were gathered around, laughing and
hollering enjoying something unusual,
He made his way into the group only to discover a cute little duck dancing on
top of a pot turned upside down. Everyone was enjoying the whole scene.
When things calmed down, the circus owner decided he wanted to buy the
duck. After considerable haggling, he agreed to pay its owner $1,000 for the
duck and the pot, , , then he left.
About the same time the next day, the circus owner came bursting through the
bar room door, shouting, “Where is the scoundrel who sold me a duck that
won’t dance for a thousand bucks?”
Sure enough, he was sitting there at the far end of the bar, about where he last
saw him, 24 hours earlier.
The man nodded, and asked, “Did you put the fire under the pot?”
Friend, we’re here today to talk about that fire, , , the motivation that made the
duck to dance.
The last time I talked to you, I talked about transformation, , , the process of a
woolly worm turning into a beautiful butterfly. I further stated that if our speaking
skill were ever to burst into a butterfly, there had to be in intermediate stage, , ,
the cocoon stage.
And, it’s not always pretty.
Today I’d like to give you’re a different picture of this transformation process.
It too, has three phases just like the butterfly metaphor.
First stage is the Yar Now stage, , , that’s Indiana talk for “where you are now
with your speaking skills.” I am from Indiana, you know?
And the last stage, , , you probably already know how to spell it in Indiana talk, , ,
it’s the Wanna Be stage. I will further suggest that this wanna be stage can
go three different directions. First, it may be to make a lot of money speaking—
but money isn’t everything.
Or, you might choose to change a lot of peoples’ hearts and lives and the world
around you.
Third, you want to give your speeches staying power, , , year after year.
All these are worthy reasons for you to refine your public speaking skills.
Then, there is the in-between stage, , , you know, the cocoon stage. In this model,
we’ll call it the RC stage (or radical change phase), , , lots of people in Indiana
can’t spell words like “radical.” Nor, even know what they mean.
Now, , , I’m talking radical!
There’s an old saying among motivational speakers, “If you always do what you
have always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.”
Dr. Phil says it like this, “How’s that working for you, son?” Then he does his
Texas thing and says, “Buddy, it’s time for you to make some difficult changes.”
There are three parts to the “radical” changes I’m talking about here today.
(You don't want to miss part two and discover the three radical changes most
speakers need to make to transform their speaking careers.)
Wayne